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A stupid man who had the love of the most beautiful woman and blew it. But who wants to make good. This is my very public apology to her, her family and her friends. I wasn't a cheater or wife beater, but what I did do was take her love for granted and abuse the privilege of being her partner. I was immature and selfish. I do not blame her for wanting away. But I want her back. I love her so much and want nobody else. Truly. She is the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. I am ready for a grown up relationship. I am ready to take responsibility for being a father and partner. I have grown up. The road will be long and quite probably impassable. But a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do. If only he'd done it years ago!!

Sunday 18 March 2012

Carl Jung

I came across this quote by Jung - 

"The most intense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calm that is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and their conflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results".

This is where I sit in relation to my desire to reconcile with Becky.  That if we could overcome this, our future stability would be assured. 

You live, you learn and are stronger for it.  The danger in relationships I suppose is that you learn at different speeds.  

For sure I have been lagging way behind Becky for years. Finally she got fed up waiting for me to catch up.  If only I can convince her that I'm now up to speed!  


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